Boost Your Network: Build Connections That Matter
Hello 👋, welcome to the fifth step in the 6 Steps to Stand Out in Your Career series. I hope you find it valuable and that it helps you grow in your career journey!
🔗 What Does "Networking" Really Mean?
Let’s take a look at the Cambridge Dictionary definition of network:
"A large system consisting of many similar parts that are connected together to allow movement or communication between or along the parts, or between the parts and a control center."
Notice the key phrases: "connected together" and "communication between the parts."
Networking isn’t just about collecting contacts—it’s about building relationships. Your network should be a web of real connections, not just a list of people you’ve added on LinkedIn.
🏗️ Building a Strong Professional Network
When you think about Java, who comes to mind?
James Gosling?
Josh Long?
Venkat Subramaniam?
Or maybe another well-known Java expert?
Now, imagine you come across something interesting about Java—a new feature, an insightful blog post, or an exciting event. Who do you think of first to share it with?
Likely, it’s a friend or colleague who shares your enthusiasm for Java, someone whose opinion you value.
That’s the difference between a meaningful network and just a list of followers. A true network is built on trust, shared interests, and real interactions.
🌟 It's About Being Remembered, Not Just Being Connected
Many people focus on growing their LinkedIn connections, but visibility matters more than numbers. A strong network isn’t just about who you know—it’s about who knows you.
"It’s not about who you know, it’s about who knows you."
Think about it: If you never interact, never contribute, and never provide value, why would someone remember you? The best connections are built through meaningful contributions and authentic engagement.
💡 How to Make a Lasting Impression
Next time you connect with someone, ask yourself:
✅ Am I adding value to this relationship?
✅ Am I engaging in a way that makes me memorable?
✅ Am I making a genuine effort to connect on a personal level?
Because at the end of the day:
"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
– Maya Angelou
Make your interactions meaningful, and your network will grow—not just in size, but in quality and impact. 🚀